

This is Nancy Lynn. She is my mother. What a beautiful
baby she was. She was one of two daughters that were nine years apart...she was the baby. The ripped picture to the left is of Nancy's High School Graduation. The "zebra" hair...well there's just no explanation for that!!!
baby she was. She was one of two daughters that were nine years apart...she was the baby. The ripped picture to the left is of Nancy's High School Graduation. The "zebra" hair...well there's just no explanation for that!!!Here she is today. She has 3 children, Aaron, Amanda, and Kristen. Six grandchildren, Jessica, Alexandra, Courtney, Kendyl, Connor, and Korynn.
She married at the end of her senior year in High School, to Milt. A couple of years later, they found the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, and were baptized! They adopted Kristen and then two years later had Aaron. Three years after that they were blessed with Amanda! Alot of moving went on after that. Some of her greatest memories and friends were during the Snowflake years. She still cherishes the friendships she made there. In 1981, she became ill, and was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. She has battled with it ever sense. Milt and her parted ways, and Nancy remained strong to her testimony of the church. Her motto became "Never give up! Never, never give up."-Winston Churchill (hence the name of her blog "nevergiveupnancy.blogspot.com!) When first diagnosed they said 9 months...but that was when they thought it was a brain tumor. Then they said just a few years...well that was almost 30 years ago! What's up with that people ask? It is her positive attitude and the willingness to laugh about things instead of cry! An example of this would be the countless hours of waiting on Dial-A-Ride..and waiting..and waiting! They even "misplaced" her a couple of times. Instead of getting mad (like I did) she just said "well, that's why we call it Dial-A-Joke!" She has taught us to laugh at things well...and you know what? It works! Although her body has given up on her, she remains strong willed and an inspiration to many.
When I told her what I was doing, she wished for me to tell a litlle about her mother and her sister. Her mother was known as "Boots" to almost all who knew her. A woman that could make friends with anyone. She stood by Nancy's side through everything and helped care for her physically and financially. She loved her mother very much. At the time of her passing, Nancy was in a nursing home, and upon coming back from the funeral, I asked how she had been doing. She often hung out in the lobby with the front desk secretary, and she told me that on Thursday morning my mom was not talkative at all. Knowing that she was grieving, she left her alone. But then she said what was weird, was that for almost an hour noone came in, the phone did not ring, it was just silent. She happened to look over at mom and see tears from her eyes. When asked, Nancy said that she felt her mother standing next to her comforting her and she was crying happy tears.
Nancy's sister was nine years older than her; Judy. She was equally as beautiful and a very strong woman. The women in our family are strong women. She looked after Nancy her whole life. Judy was a huge part of my mom's life. She had 4 kids of her own that Nancy just loved to be around. Judy could get things done my mom said. Give her a task, and she would get it done, or get answers. Mom said this helped alot in the early years of her MS as Judy would research and ask questions. Judy also passed on to heaven not long ago. Mom misses her dearly.
Here are some random things about her that I bet you did not know!
She's 4'11"-yep not tall at all!
BlueGreen eyes
very positive thinker
she was a silk florist
sews like a professional
a complete and total neat freak
a food storage guru
a food storage guru
crafty beyond all belief
was a goer and a doer before the MS
funny
can't sing worth a darn
always was in service of someone else
She's a fighter!

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5 comments:
What a great idea! We love Nancy here in Higley Groves! She is a gem. She is an inspiration to all! We will pass on her blog to our ward!
hehe- I can totally remember the Winston Churchill quote stuck on the fridge for years! Great job Kristen :)
What an awesome blog. She is such an amazing woman & truly an example of what attitude can do! The pictures are wonderful & I really love the one of Korynn giving her "kisses" with the stuffed animal - so sweet. Please post your mom's Bee costume picture - Pleeeeeease! I love it! (It really could be a greeting card & shows what a good sport she really is!) :)
This is a comment from a friend who didn't know how to:
"We love Nancy. We've been friends since they moved to Snowflake and I went to visit them as relief society President to welcome them into our ward. we had such a blast with them form that day on, playing cards and going to church activities and such together. Nancy and Milt started a Labor Day picnic tradition that we still carry on today. We always think of them when we have that group gathering. They started something neat. We don't see Nancy as much as we used to, but we try to drop by when we go to Mesa. She a dear friend and we admire her so much for her wonderful, positive attitude. She does have a great sense of humor, and even now laughs till we're afraid she can't get her breath. Thank you, Kristen for this blog to help us remember her. It's beautiful. We love the pictures and the music. Thanks. Love,
Verona and Blaine"
We love to come visit you Nancy! You are such an inspiration to us all!
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